Most people have some secrets, but some are more damaging than others. There is a very true statement that says, "You are only as sick as your secrets." Carrying secrets can become a crushing load on a person's heart. What does the weight of your secrets do to you? You need to answer this question. The next question is why carry it? Who does that help? Who is it hurting? What would it be like to lay the secret down?
I had to get help for my secrets. I lived with severe childhood abuse - physical, emotional and sexual. I went to a 12 step program called Celebrate Recovery and found some help to deal with my past. I'm not saying you should out everyone's secrets. But if the weight of what you carry is making you sick, depressed, angry, or whatever....there is help.
Secrets can destroy lives. I hope you find your way through all the landmines in your life!